HAUNTED BY HAPPINESS

HAUNTED BY HAPPINESS

Posted by sumeet.kr.sinha Wednesday, December 19, 2012 · Leave A Comment (Edit)

Walking through the Boulevard of memories vast.
Contemplated how long did the seed of each of ‘em last.

Ephemeral moments when we live and breathe felicity,
Insuperable; can’t confine and clasp ‘em till eternity.

Surmised, speculated; then realized life’s queer wryness,
Truest Oxymoron of the moron(me), I feel haunted by happiness.

LIFE OF DREAMS- LIVE IT !!!

Posted by sumeet.kr.sinha Friday, October 12, 2012 · Leave A Comment (Edit)

“I have a dream”- Martin Luther King.

We know what this dream connotes. I know people have very high aspirations and targets set for them, and they call them dreams. But this blog is not about that category of dreams.

Let’s consider dreams as simple dreams. Dreams, the ones we see, rather experience, when we let our conscious mind rest, or simply put, sleep.

Have you ever felt happy in a dream? Does it even matter whether you are in the real world or just a world of fantasy? Think about it. And did you feel dejected when you woke up in the morning just to realize that it was a ‘stupid’ dream.  Is the dejection there because of a pre conceived notion that what happens in real world is all that matters? Do we not undermine the satisfaction earned during the dream due to this?

Just imagine if we could be the architects of our dreams and then experience every detail, every moment of joy we ever wanted, in exact manner that we desired. Would it not be fantastic to actually experience the greatest joys you ever wanted to? Well when you are in dream, mostly, you do not know that you are dreaming, so, momentarily, the experience is capable of giving you the same amount of joy as you would expect in real world.

Throughout our lives we chase dreams, run behind targets set by ourselves or someone else for us. Imagine how brilliant it would be to stop chasing dreams in this world and just create and lead your dreams to the ending you want, have the climax that you want and experience it all by yourself.

Would it not be wonderful to continue tonight the splendid dream from where we left last today morning?

Do we have limitations in the world? Yes, plenty of them, some physical, some mathematical, some logical. In the dream world there are lesser constraints, the most popular one being unable to run fast when being chased. There are very less, if any, limitations in the world of dreams.

If there is some way you can master your dreams and control them to some extent, it is a far more exciting place to spend time in. It would be perfectly called “Living a life of Dreams”

What if the world which we consider real is itself a dream and we wake up only after we die?

Well, do not take the last statement too seriously.

joker gets serious.

Posted on September 17, 2012

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why man fails ?

Man fails because he seeks inner peace from external sources, because he relies on someone else for his own happiness. Sometimes the absence of external source causes burns that do not heal, creates voids that never fill.

behind the scene:

Santa- you know that alcohol is poison, then why do you drink it ?

Banta-there are some feelings inside that need to be killed. 

You love only once in life. then whatever you do after, is just to forget it. no matter what you try, the voids cannot be filled. you choose a different lifestyle, resort to drugs and drinks, choose a different relationship,  and it all goes terribly wrong. just when you think you are at your lowest, the ground beneath your feet gives way and lets you fall into a deeper chasm, a greater abyss. In such situations, Murphy’s Law starts appearing as the greatest law on Earth – “whatever that can go wrong, will go wrong”.

After a reasonably long period of depression and mental horror, when you manage to pick yourself up and try to look forward to life ahead, you find that you are left with very few friends. But indeed, these are the friends who actually will stand for you, no matter what.

By then you have learnt a lesson, a lesson which came at a cost, a cost that was too high to bear by choice. the cost was first incurred and then was simply forced on you. or is it ? rewind and go back to step one, you made choices initially, so the ramifications can’t be blamed on destiny ! in the end, you will find that it was easy to decide whether the path was wrong or right because of tens of reasons. but, wait a minute, that is hindsight bias.

Would it not be wise that before making a choice, read the *conditions apply first? of course, then we could do a detailed analysis and select/deselect the options. Unfortunately, the *conditions apply are visible only after they have been applied !

Man is not destined to fail, he is designed to choose failure.

**original post at sumeetkrsinha.blog.com